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Lasagne of Love

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Introduction

This is what I make for my children’s birthday celebrations, for farewell suppers to send them off before they go away, and for the dinners to welcome them back when they come home again. It’s our family take on a traditional lasagne, though I’m not sure Italians would exactly welcome my deviations from the classical recipe. For one thing, I don’t make my own lasagne sheets; while I have in the past, I now routinely use dried ones out of a packet and, what’s more, I don’t boil them first. In order, then, to ensure they soften properly, I make a slightly more liquid meat sauce than is customary and, rather than have a covering of béchamel at the end, I finish with a layer of meat sauce, topped with chopped mozzarella on top. None of this is proper from a North Italian perspective, but the lasagne it yields is pleasure-giving and gratifyingly popular.

I can’t say that this is exactly faff-free to make: but it is time-consuming rather than difficult. I adore pottering about the kitchen making it. What’s more, you can layer it up (bar the mozzarella topping) in advance (see notes) and bake when needed. And I make this even if there isn’t a whole tableful of people to eat it; I freeze leftovers in individual portions, to make for most superior ready-meals at a later date.

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This is what I make for my children’s birthday celebrations, for farewell suppers to send them off before they go away, and for the dinners to welcome them back when they come home again. It’s our family take on a traditional lasagne, though I’m not sure Italians would exactly welcome my deviations from the classical recipe. For one thing, I don’t make my own lasagne sheets; while I have in the past, I now routinely use dried ones out of a packet and, what’s more, I don’t boil them first. In order, then, to ensure they soften properly, I make a slightly more liquid meat sauce than is customary and, rather than have a covering of béchamel at the end, I finish with a layer of meat sauce, topped with chopped mozzarella on top. None of this is proper from a North Italian perspective, but the lasagne it yields is pleasure-giving and gratifyingly popular.

I can’t say that this is exactly faff-free to make: but it is time-consuming rather than difficult. I adore pottering about the kitchen making it. What’s more, you can layer it up (bar the mozzarella topping) in advance (see notes) and bake when needed. And I make this even if there isn’t a whole tableful of people to eat it; I freeze leftovers in individual portions, to make for most superior ready-meals at a later date.

For US cup measures, use the toggle at the top of the ingredients list.

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Ingredients

Makes: 9-12

Metric Cups

FOR THE MEAT SAUCE

  • 2 large-ish onions (approx. 350g / 2¾ cups chopped)
  • 3 - 4 x 15ml tablespoons olive oil
  • 125 millilitres full fat milk
  • 4 x 15ml tablespoons tomato puree
  • 2 carrots (approx. 250g)
  • 1 stick of celery
  • 4 fat cloves of garlic
  • 150 grams rindless pancetta (or bacon)
  • A small bunch of flatleaf parsley (approx. 20g)
  • 1 x 15ml tablespoon fresh thyme leaves (or 1 teaspoon dried thyme)
  • ⅛ teaspoon dried chilli flakes
  • 350 grams minced beef
  • 350 grams minced pork
  • 250 millilitres red wine (good enough to drink) or red vermouth
  • 500 millilitres beef stock
  • 2 x 400 grams tins of chopped tomatoes
  • 2 teaspoons Maldon sea salt flakes (or 1 teaspoon fine sea salt)
  • 3 fresh bay leaves

FOR THE BÉCHAMEL

  • Vegetable prep detritus from meat sauce, above
  • 1 litre full fat milk plus more as needed
  • 1 teaspoon Maldon sea salt flakes (or ½ teaspoon fine sea salt)
  • A good grinding of white pepper
  • 2 fresh bay leaves
  • 100 grams unsalted butter
  • 100 grams plain flour
  • 3 x 15ml tablespoons (approx. 40g) freshly grated Parmesan

FOR ASSEMBLING

  • 18-20 dried lasagne sheets
  • 1 ball mozzarella not bufala
  • 5 x 15ml tablespoons (approx. 40g) freshly grated Parmesan

FOR THE MEAT SAUCE

  • 2 large-ish onions (approx. 350g / 2¾ cups chopped)
  • 3 - 4 tablespoons olive oil
  • ½ cup whole milk
  • 4 tablespoons tomato puree
  • 2 carrots (approx. 250g)
  • 1 stick of celery
  • 4 fat cloves of garlic
  • 6 ounces rindless pancetta (or bacon)
  • A small bunch of Italian parsley (approx. 20g)
  • 1 tablespoon fresh thyme leaves (or 1 teaspoon dried thyme)
  • ⅛ teaspoon red pepper flakes
  • 12 ounces ground beef
  • 12 ounces ground pork
  • 1 cup red wine (good enough to drink) or red vermouth
  • 2 cups beef broth
  • 2 x 14 ounces tins of diced tomatoes
  • 2 teaspoons kosher salt (or 1 teaspoon fine sea salt)
  • 3 fresh bay leaves

FOR THE BÉCHAMEL

  • Vegetable prep detritus from meat sauce, above
  • 4 cups whole milk plus more as needed
  • 1 teaspoon soft sea salt flakes (or ½ teaspoon fine sea salt)
  • A good grinding of white pepper
  • 2 fresh bay leaves
  • 7 tablespoons unsalted butter
  • ¾ cup all-purpose flour
  • 3 tablespoons (approx. 40g) freshly grated Parmesan

FOR ASSEMBLING

  • 18-20 dried lasagne sheets
  • 1 ball mozzarella not bufala
  • 5 tablespoons (approx. 40g) freshly grated Parmesan

Method

  1. Chop the onions, dropping the peeled skin into a saucepan big enough to make the béchamel shortly. I use one 22cm / 9inches in diameter and 9cm / 3½ inches deep.
  2. In a large, heavy-based casserole or pan that comes with a lid — I use an enamelled cast-iron casserole of 26cm / 10 inches diameter, with a capacity of 5.3 litres / 5¼ quarts, and wouldn’t advise going any smaller — warm 3 tablespoons of the oil and, over medium-low heat, cook the onions for 5 minutes, then turn down to low and cook for a further 15 minutes, stirring every now and again until the onions are beginning to soften and colour.
  3. While the onions are cooking, first stir the tomato purée into the 125ml / ½ cup of milk, and set aside for a mo. Peel the carrots if they need it (if they’re organic, or the skin looks tender, I don’t bother) and chop them each into 3 or 4 pieces, dropping them into the bowl of a food processor and the peelings and any discarded pieces into the saucepan with the onion skin. Tear the celery into pieces and add to the processor, then peel the garlic (dropping the peelings into the béchamel pan) and add the cloves to the processor. Cut the pancetta (or bacon) up a bit and add to the processor as well, along with the parsley (you can use all the tender stems too). Strip enough thyme leaves from the stems to give you 1 tablespoon, add this too (or use 1 teaspoon of dried thyme) and blitz until everything is finely chopped, but not mush. Obviously, you could chop everything by hand. In which case, don’t drive yourself mad trying to get everything as fine as the processor version.
  4. When the 15 minutes is up on the onions, heat the oven to 170℃/150℃ Fan/325°F. Scrape every last bit of the bacony vegetable mixture from the processor into the pan, turn the heat up to medium-high, stir well and cook for 5 minutes, then turn the heat down again to medium-low, sprinkle in the chilli flakes, and cook for another 5 minutes.
  5. At this stage, I feel I should tell you to remove all the vegetables in order to brown the meat properly, but I have taken to simply adding it on top of what’s in the pan already. So, turn the heat to high, crumble in the minced beef and pork and turn well in the pan for about 5 minutes. If you need to add another tablespoon of oil, do.
  6. Add the wine (or vermouth), let it bubble up, and then pour in the beef stock, the tins of chopped tomatoes, the tomato purée and milk mixture, salt and bay leaves and bring to a bubble. Taste to see if you want to add any more salt, and then clamp on a tightly fitting lid and transfer to the oven, leaving it to cook for 1 hour.
  7. Straightaway, pour the litre / 4 cups of milk for the béchamel over the vegetable peelings, add the salt, pepper and bay leaves, and bring almost to the boil, but don’t let it boil. Turn off the heat, cover with a tightly fitting lid (which will stop it from getting a skin, as well as making the flavours infuse better) and leave while the meat sauce cooks. When the meat sauce has been in the oven for 45 minutes, strain the milk into a large batter jug. If, when all the milk has dripped through, you are short of your full litre, just pour in a little more milk to top up.
  8. Clean out the pan (just with water’s fine, you don’t need soap), dry it well and melt the butter in it, then add the flour and mix together, over medium heat, for a couple of minutes, forming your roux, and cooking it a little; you should have a dingy primrose paste that, somehow, magically, seems to come away from the pan and cleave to itself as you stir and move it about.
  9. Take the pan off the heat, swap your wooden spoon for a whisk, preferably a little one that's good for removing lumps, and slowly whisk in the milk. Don't worry, by the way, that the milk (thanks to the onion skins) will have a slightly peachy tone about it. I rather like it, actually, not that it is visible in the finished sauce.
  10. When all the milk is whisked in, carry on whisking until you've got a smooth cream in the pan, and then put back on the heat, lowish, and keep whisking until you have a very, very thick sauce, with all taste of flouriness banished; this will take 5-7 minutes. Off the heat, quickly whisk in the 3 tablespoons of Parmesan and then scrape every last bit back into the batter jug, tasting for seasoning as you go.
  11. Take the meat sauce out of the oven, and give a gentle stir with a large ladle. Once you can taste it without burning your mouth, check for seasoning: it may well need more salt; do not be timid.
  12. Now, it's just a matter of layering up. My lasagne dish measures 24 x 35 x 6cm / 9½ x 14 x 2½ inches and it's a pretty tight fit. Sit the dish on a baking tray. Line the dish with a couple of ladlefuls of the meat sauce, aiming to get more liquid than meat, and cover with a layer of lasagne sheets. I get 4 sheets in the bottom layer but find that for subsequent layers I need extra, which I snap into pieces for patching gaps. Put a couple more ladlefuls of the liquidy bit of sauce into a jug or bowl, and set aside for now.
  13. Put a third of your béchamel on top of the lasagne sheets and use a spatula to help spread it a little, but don't worry about making an absolutely even, edge-to-edge covering. Top with a third of your remaining meat sauce, then cover with another layer of lasagne sheets, followed by your second third of béchamel, second third of meat sauce and third layer of lasagne sheets. Add your remaining béchamel and meat sauce in order and top with a final layer of pasta sheets and then add the set-aside liquidy meat sauce to cover, pressing down if you need to make sure the top layer of pasta is, if not submerged exactly, then lightly covered. Leave now for at least 30 minutes, but longer (up to 2 days) if needed; if you're leaving it for more than about 2 hours, you will need to refrigerate it.
  14. When you are ready to bake your lasagne, heat the oven to 200℃/180℃ Fan/400°F. Finely chop or shred the mozzarella and sprinkle over the top of the unbaked lasagne, then sprinkle over the Parmesan. Cover with foil, trying not to press it down on the top of the lasagne, and bake for 40 minutes (if it's been refrigerated it'll probably need 1 hour). Remove the foil (pull off any cheese that's stuck to it and add it back to the top of the lasagne) and cook for a further 30 minutes until it's slightly scorched in parts, the cheese gooey, the pasta swollen and runkled on top, and everything piping hot all the way through.
  15. Leave to stand, if you can bear it, for 20-30 minutes before diving in.
  1. Chop the onions, dropping the peeled skin into a saucepan big enough to make the béchamel shortly. I use one 22cm / 9inches in diameter and 9cm / 3½ inches deep.
  2. In a large, heavy-based casserole or pan that comes with a lid — I use an enamelled cast-iron casserole of 26cm / 10 inches diameter, with a capacity of 5.3 litres / 5¼ quarts, and wouldn’t advise going any smaller — warm 3 tablespoons of the oil and, over medium-low heat, cook the onions for 5 minutes, then turn down to low and cook for a further 15 minutes, stirring every now and again until the onions are beginning to soften and colour.
  3. While the onions are cooking, first stir the tomato purée into the 125ml / ½ cup of milk, and set aside for a mo. Peel the carrots if they need it (if they’re organic, or the skin looks tender, I don’t bother) and chop them each into 3 or 4 pieces, dropping them into the bowl of a food processor and the peelings and any discarded pieces into the saucepan with the onion skin. Tear the celery into pieces and add to the processor, then peel the garlic (dropping the peelings into the béchamel pan) and add the cloves to the processor. Cut the pancetta (or bacon) up a bit and add to the processor as well, along with the parsley (you can use all the tender stems too). Strip enough thyme leaves from the stems to give you 1 tablespoon, add this too (or use 1 teaspoon of dried thyme) and blitz until everything is finely chopped, but not mush. Obviously, you could chop everything by hand. In which case, don’t drive yourself mad trying to get everything as fine as the processor version.
  4. When the 15 minutes is up on the onions, heat the oven to 170℃/150℃ Fan/325°F. Scrape every last bit of the bacony vegetable mixture from the processor into the pan, turn the heat up to medium-high, stir well and cook for 5 minutes, then turn the heat down again to medium-low, sprinkle in the chilli flakes, and cook for another 5 minutes.
  5. At this stage, I feel I should tell you to remove all the vegetables in order to brown the meat properly, but I have taken to simply adding it on top of what’s in the pan already. So, turn the heat to high, crumble in the ground beef and pork and turn well in the pan for about 5 minutes. If you need to add another tablespoon of oil, do.
  6. Add the wine (or vermouth), let it bubble up, and then pour in the beef broth, the tins of diced tomatoes, the tomato purée and milk mixture, salt and bay leaves and bring to a bubble. Taste to see if you want to add any more salt, and then clamp on a tightly fitting lid and transfer to the oven, leaving it to cook for 1 hour.
  7. Straightaway, pour the litre / 4 cups of milk for the béchamel over the vegetable peelings, add the salt, pepper and bay leaves, and bring almost to the boil, but don’t let it boil. Turn off the heat, cover with a tightly fitting lid (which will stop it from getting a skin, as well as making the flavours infuse better) and leave while the meat sauce cooks. When the meat sauce has been in the oven for 45 minutes, strain the milk into a large batter jug. If, when all the milk has dripped through, you are short of your full litre, just pour in a little more milk to top up.
  8. Clean out the pan (just with water’s fine, you don’t need soap), dry it well and melt the butter in it, then add the flour and mix together, over medium heat, for a couple of minutes, forming your roux, and cooking it a little; you should have a dingy primrose paste that, somehow, magically, seems to come away from the pan and cleave to itself as you stir and move it about.
  9. Take the pan off the heat, swap your wooden spoon for a whisk, preferably a little one that's good for removing lumps, and slowly whisk in the milk. Don't worry, by the way, that the milk (thanks to the onion skins) will have a slightly peachy tone about it. I rather like it, actually, not that it is visible in the finished sauce.
  10. When all the milk is whisked in, carry on whisking until you've got a smooth cream in the pan, and then put back on the heat, lowish, and keep whisking until you have a very, very thick sauce, with all taste of flouriness banished; this will take 5-7 minutes. Off the heat, quickly whisk in the 3 tablespoons of Parmesan and then scrape every last bit back into the batter jug, tasting for seasoning as you go.
  11. Take the meat sauce out of the oven, and give a gentle stir with a large ladle. Once you can taste it without burning your mouth, check for seasoning: it may well need more salt; do not be timid.
  12. Now, it's just a matter of layering up. My lasagne dish measures 24 x 35 x 6cm / 9½ x 14 x 2½ inches and it's a pretty tight fit. Sit the dish on a baking tray. Line the dish with a couple of ladlefuls of the meat sauce, aiming to get more liquid than meat, and cover with a layer of lasagne sheets. I get 4 sheets in the bottom layer but find that for subsequent layers I need extra, which I snap into pieces for patching gaps. Put a couple more ladlefuls of the liquidy bit of sauce into a jug or bowl, and set aside for now.
  13. Put a third of your béchamel on top of the lasagne sheets and use a spatula to help spread it a little, but don't worry about making an absolutely even, edge-to-edge covering. Top with a third of your remaining meat sauce, then cover with another layer of lasagne sheets, followed by your second third of béchamel, second third of meat sauce and third layer of lasagne sheets. Add your remaining béchamel and meat sauce in order and top with a final layer of pasta sheets and then add the set-aside liquidy meat sauce to cover, pressing down if you need to make sure the top layer of pasta is, if not submerged exactly, then lightly covered. Leave now for at least 30 minutes, but longer (up to 2 days) if needed; if you're leaving it for more than about 2 hours, you will need to refrigerate it.
  14. When you are ready to bake your lasagne, heat the oven to 200℃/180℃ Fan/400°F. Finely chop or shred the mozzarella and sprinkle over the top of the unbaked lasagne, then sprinkle over the Parmesan. Cover with foil, trying not to press it down on the top of the lasagne, and bake for 40 minutes (if it's been refrigerated it'll probably need 1 hour). Remove the foil (pull off any cheese that's stuck to it and add it back to the top of the lasagne) and cook for a further 30 minutes until it's slightly scorched in parts, the cheese gooey, the pasta swollen and runkled on top, and everything piping hot all the way through.
  15. Leave to stand, if you can bear it, for 20-30 minutes before diving in.

Additional Information

MAKE AHEAD:
Prepare meat sauce up to 3 days ahead, cover and refrigerate until needed. Assemble lasagne (without cheese topping) up to 2 days ahead, cover and refrigerate until needed. Add cheese and bake as directed in recipe.

STORE:
Refrigerate leftovers, covered, for up to 2 days. Reheat in microwave or cover with foil and heat in 180C/160C Fan/350F oven until piping hot.

FREEZE:
Freeze assembled lasagne (without cheese topping) for up to 3 months. Tightly wrap dish in double layer of food wrap and layer of foil. Defrost for 24 hours in fridge. Add cheese and bake as directed in recipe. Freeze leftovers in airtight container for up to 3 months. Defrost overnight in fridge and reheat as above.

MAKE AHEAD:
Prepare meat sauce up to 3 days ahead, cover and refrigerate until needed. Assemble lasagne (without cheese topping) up to 2 days ahead, cover and refrigerate until needed. Add cheese and bake as directed in recipe.

STORE:
Refrigerate leftovers, covered, for up to 2 days. Reheat in microwave or cover with foil and heat in 180C/160C Fan/350F oven until piping hot.

FREEZE:
Freeze assembled lasagne (without cheese topping) for up to 3 months. Tightly wrap dish in double layer of food wrap and layer of foil. Defrost for 24 hours in fridge. Add cheese and bake as directed in recipe. Freeze leftovers in airtight container for up to 3 months. Defrost overnight in fridge and reheat as above.

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What 11 Others have said

  • This is hands down the best Lasagna ! I made for my partners birthday family meal and it won’t down a treat ! Quite a lengthy recipe but nothing difficult and definitely worth the effort ! The bechemel sauce is also divine , who would Of thought a few peelings that would have been thrown turns it into a wonderful concoction! I made two versions of this sauce as I myself don’t eat beef mince due to health reasons , using just pork mince and mushrooms , I can honestly say it didn’t taste any different . Thankyou again nigella !

    Posted by Rosiecooks22 on 15th January 2024
  • My husband declared this the best he’s ever had and we now make it monthly!

    Posted by TailsAndStays on 31st May 2023
  • Best lasagne ever. Worth the long process.

    Posted by BananaApple on 4th March 2023
  • Love this nearly lasagne recipe Nigella, tastes even better next day.

    Posted by Leah50 on 17th December 2022
  • love this recipe my family are always asking for me to make.

    Posted by Moonlady on 5th December 2022
  • A staple for family gatherings, and compulsory for Christmas Eve, so my family tell me. I have in the past added chicken livers but they are no longer readily available where I live. A good slug of Port in place of wine makes the Christmas Eve one special and don’t forget the tablespoon of chocolate powder!

    Posted by Mamgu on 11th December 2021
  • I have made this three times, now. After the first, my husband (who wasn’t a big lasagne fan, previously) would not stop asking me to make it again. It is such a tasty lasagne, and well worth the effort!

    Posted by RipuBains on 11th August 2021
  • Well worth the effort, though am wondering when I'll gather the courage to make it again! Very happy with the outcome! As always Nigella your recipes are fail proof even for novice cooks like me. Thank you for sharing!

    Posted by d_mat79 on 5th March 2021
  • Well worth the effort. My whole family agreed that this is the best lasagne we have ever tasted! I used gluten free lasagne sheets and everything was perfectly cooked using the recipe instructions.

    Posted by Jolandi on 12th February 2021
  • This is easily the best lasagne I have ever made. It's easy and fun to layer up. The vegetable infused milk makes the bechamel sauce have so much flavor and character. This is a complete winner!

    Posted by joshv41680 on 15th December 2020
  • Lasagne of love is a suitable name as it is time consuming but well worth it. I have struggled to make a good lasagne for 35 years. At last! Went down very well. Thank you.

    Posted by Beviec on 15th December 2020
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